Hope for Resolution

In December, our girls sang this song, Hope for Resolution, with about 6 other children and the adult choir at our church. It ended up being better than I expected. It was a tricky song for a children’s choir two months in the making. Each week I sat in on the practices (I was crowd control) and would gather up music and such. I kept thinking it was funny to say things like, “Here’s your hope for resolution,” and “I can’t find the hope for resolution,” and “This church has absolutely no hope for resolution!” You know, really clever stuff like that.

Anyway, I almost hesitate to post this, but remember my mid-summer balloon popping leak that took me the closest I’ve ever been to a really depressed state? I went to the hospital over Thanksgiving to once again try to resolve things, but nothing happened. I waited until after Christmas to try again. I called (I’m sure they were tired of hearing from me as I’ve called numerous times since the disastrous bill came in the mail) and was informed that the hospital was in the process of writing the whole thing off.

What? Can you say that again? Ummm, thanks? And, can I get that in writing, pretty please?
So that’s where things stand as of now. I got a paper in the mail this week to sign and send back so they can initiate the write-off procedure. I’ll give them two weeks and call again to see about getting a zero-balance bill from them. I want to have a written statement proving we no longer owe the hospital 7K.

So while we’re not completely resolved yet, we certainly have hope for resolution, which is more than we’ve had for the past 6 months. And I am so very thankful.

Homeschool Update

We started back this week and it’s been a good one. I’ve managed to make an actual cooked breakfast two mornings in a row, read the Bible to the girls at the table, kept them off the computer all morning, started chores, and began real schooling by 9 each day. This is a pretty major feat around here. Here’s our update, by subject:

Language Arts: Maddie learned about “hyperbole” this week (as if we needed anymore hyper anything around here). After getting the pronunciation down, she showed me a list of examples she came up with. My favorite? “That movie is so old it was narrated by Adam.” Get it? I thought that was pretty clever of her.

Math: I taught the girls how to play real Monopoly this week. Be gone, boring JV Squad Monopoly! Chloe is begging anyone and everyone to play with her and is getting a crash course in three digit subtraction. “No, if she owes $280 and she gave you $500, then she gets $220 back, not $320.” I like this way of doing math.

Science: Katie and I read several pages in one of our science books today and answered a lot of activity questions about birds. We read about 8 pages (all about birds), and answered about 6 questions (all about birds). As I was turning to the last page, she said, “So, I guess we’re learning about birds today, huh?” And the Captain Obvious Badge of the Day goes to…

Drama:
Our Sweet Wild Card

We’ve really had a pretty relaxing day and I’m liking it. Crossing my fingers for the rest of the semester.

Laundry Wins

I laugh every time I post about something that seems so goofy as my laundry and get more comments than when I post something that took a lot of thought and get one. Or none. It just cracks me up.

So I just thought I’d check in today to say that I’m still on top of the laundry. I need to iron, though. Still haven’t plugged that one in my list because I would give it a priority of like 37 and it wouldn’t even show up then, so why bother?

We did re-implement the morning and evening chore routines with the girls though, and I’ve been amazed (really) by how tidy the downstairs has been for the past couple of weeks as well. Craig walked through tonight and commented on how clean the downstairs was (emphasis here on the downstairs). I began to agree with him, but then saw my desk again and said, “Well, most of the downstairs, anyway.”
We then offered up a moment of silence before what is commonly referred to as The Black Hole by pretty much everyone in the family. Lost a book? Check The Black Hole. Can’t find that form you needed for something? Probably lost in The Black Hole. One can’t perfect everything at once, you see. We actually finally figured out my superhero name: I’m The Piler. No flat surface is safe around me (or maybe I’m not a superhero after all, but an evil villain – I don’t like that as much.)

So score two for the family systems organizer and one for The Piler. Now I need to score one for going to sleep on time.

One Small Step for Me, One Giant Leap for My Family

So the laundry. I’ve mentioned numerous times here how laundry-challenged I am. I know it’s probably premature to say I’ve figured it all out as I’ve only had my new system in place for two weeks, but I’ve just got to tell somebody: my kids have not had empty jammy or sock drawers for those entire two weeks. And, they’ve had pants hanging in their closet every single day. Clean pants. This is a big deal.

Here’s what’s changed: I’ve never had a good laundry system. I’ve tried various things, different places to fold, different times of the day to haul everything up, down, or in-between. Over Christmas, Craig encouraged me to put this free iGTD application on my computer (actually, he didn’t encourage me to put it on my computer as I’m notorious for screwing up my computer when I install things; he encouraged me to let him put it on my computer).

Basically, I pull everything I have to do out of my head (this is key – it must come out of my head) and into the program. From there, I can organize it by project and/or place in the house. I can prioritize things by importance on a scale of 1-5 (I just use 1, 3, and 5), and I can check them off when they are done. The checked off things leave the main list and appear on a list of completed items. I love that.

I think the program was invented for people who do other kinds of work, but it’s really working for this stay-at-home mama. I put “Laundry” in the program as something with a priority of 1 that recurs every single day.

So that’s the backstory; now for the implementation. In the past, I would just wash and wash and wash all week, and then eventually get around to folding things. But I wouldn’t always put things away right away because I would want to wait for another load to be done to put it all away at the same time. This usually meant that by the end of the day I had a half-finished job spread out all over my bed that would then get restacked in a basket. I was making more work for myself.

Now I’ve made a deal with myself: two loads have to get put away every day. Only two. I have to do two. But I also have permission to only do two (this is key for me). To ensure this happens, I make sure I’ve washed and dried two loads the day before and that two dry loads are ready for me to to fold and put away in the morning. Once those two loads are put away, I’m off the hook for folding for that day. I check it off my list. I then make sure to wash two more loads sometime that day so that I have two more dry loads for the next day.

It’s a small thing, I know, but it has been a major improvement for my family. They get clean clothes every day, and I get to check it off my list every day.

Now then, to tackle the bathroom and playroom in a similar fashion…

Essay Entitled, “What I Did On My Christmas Vacation”

I’m somewhat sad tonight. It’s 5:30 pm on the last week-day of our Christmas break. I know we’re all ready for the structure of a set routine again next week, but I’m not ready for life as we knew it in the fall to zoom back in and take over again. Not at all.

So, for fun, I thought I’d recap what we did do over the past two weeks so that when I think of everything I didn’t get done and wanted to, I won’t fret. I didn’t waste the entire two weeks playing Scrabulous on Facebook.

We began our break with an electrifying experience at The Magic House. Here’s Chloe about to try out as a fly girl for Spinal Tap:

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Hung out with cousins:

Great Grandma

Made lots of cyber gingerbread houses:

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Decorated a tree and wrapped a bunch of presents:

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Gave each girl her own copy of The Jesus Storybook Bible in her stocking:

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Hung out with more cousins:

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Celebrated Maddie’s birthday:

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Went go-cart racing with Craig, Katie, and Millie:

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Prepared and participated in two Sabbath meals (and made my first homemade turkey pot pie ever. Yum!):

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Enjoyed our new cubby-hole/coat-rack my dad built for me for Christmas:

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Experienced my girls’ first time to stay up for the turning of the new year (they don’t look tired AT ALL, do they??):

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Swept up a lot of confetti the next day:

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Bought, separated, and rebagged a lot of meat:

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And played my fair share of Cash Cow on the Webkinz site.

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I suppose that’s a pretty full Christmas break, never mind that I didn’t touch my scrapbook stuff even once (and I was going to “catch up” over the break…). I want to give Katie her baby book as a birthday present for when she turns 6 next month. Yes, I’m *that* behind.

So, I’m signing off of Christmas break. Until next year (or at least until Spring break…) Life as we knew it resumes.

Review: Deliberate Kids

Deliberate Kids

I don’t do reviews that much. Craig and I used to do them a lot on our little personal website when we were with The Navigators just for fun and our own personal edification. But I’m thinking it’s time for me to engage my review function a little more. And today I’m excited to recommend this CD: Deliberate Kids from Phil Joel, formerly of the Newsboys.

I gave this CD to my kids for Christmas this year. We just took off the cellophane this week and started listening to it when we were taking down the tree. I’m blown away. It’s good theology for kids set to great music and sung well. Really.

I know, we’re all used to “Christian” music for kids being sugary-sweet-sappy-knock-your-head-against-the-wall bad (not necessarily the theology, though that’s debatable, too). We usually steer our kids more toward U2 and the like as opposed to any VeggieTales or Miss Pattycake soundtracks. We listen to mainstream music with our kids so we can talk about things that come up that their discernment faculties may not be ready to process on their own. I’m less inclined to plug in the normal Christian kids’ selections to listen to with my kids because, let’s be honest – I want to listen to good music in addition to good words.

I’ve been listening to Joel’s Deliberate Kids for two days straight and I can’t get enough.
In Joel’s own words about this project:

“For the past six years, my wife Heather and I have been involved in children’s ministry at our church. The Lord has put a real passion in our hearts to write new songs that teach and inspire the newest generation to know the Lord and develop a personal relationship with Him at the youngest age possible.”

Here’s one favorite called A Plan:

In the beginning God created
Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden
It was a beautiful place
Everything He made in 6 days
And on the 7th day, He took a break
And He saw that it was good
So very good
Cause God made the heavens and God made the earth
God made you before your birthday
And He’s got a plan
He’s got a plan for you
Cause God made the flowers and God made the trees
God made the birds and God made the bees
He’s got a plan
He’s got a plan for you
And if you walk in His ways it will come true
Fearfully and wonderfully made
Deliberately formed, there are no mistakes no
No mistakes no
He knows every hair that is on your head
He thinks about you
He never goes to bed
He never gets sleepy
Never sleepy
Cause God made the heavens and God made the earth
God made you before your birthday
And He’s got a plan
He’s got a plan for you
Cause God made the flowers and God made the trees
God made the birds and God made the bees
He’s got a plan
He’s got a plan for you
And if you walk in His ways it will come true

Don’t just read it; go to the site and click through the jukebox to get a sample of all the songs. I’m putting this CD right up there with the Jesus Storybook Bible. I think every parent who cares about instilling good theology in their kids and appreciates music that is well done and well-sung will enjoy this CD.

Amazon has Deliberate Kids through the used section for $12.99 plus shipping. You can buy it directly through the Deliberate Kids site with a Paypal account for $17.75 including shipping, or you can download it at iTunes for $9.99. Either way, consider making this one of your first purchases of 2008.

My Other Resolution

Lest you think my previous resolution was a joke, let me assure you it wasn’t. I won’t be doing that again this year. But I did actually make another resolution, and this is significant because I don’t make them anymore (at least I didn’t while everybody else was; now that everyone else has stopped, I’ve started again…or something like that).

I decided my friendships were too cyber in nature and that I needed to be proactive about involving myself in the real lives of women around me. I started by inviting a few gals over tomorrow night to (giggle) play some games. This is funny because it totally sounded like a fourth grade invitation (so do you want to come over on Friday and play some games with me?) but I did it. I think three ladies are coming. Maybe four. It will be fun. It will.

My other resolution is to (gasp) pick up the phone and call friends I don’t get to see anymore at least once a month. I started today by calling my good friend Heather in Denver. I think she was surprised to hear from me. I’m guessing this because I had to wait for her to pick herself up off the floor after she fell down upon hearing it was me on the phone (okay, I’m kidding about that last part).

It was super to catch up with her again, and she joked that she hopes she makes it back into my rotation before August. I hope so, too.

So, I’m declaring 2008 to be the year of the live people interaction, blog be darned. That doesn’t mean I won’t still write on my blog, but I won’t be depending on my blog as my main source of human interaction.

That’s what I’m resolving for this year – along with the obligatory pledge to lose 15 more pounds (that darn Santa gave me 5 for Christmas; worse than coal, that), play with my children more, and read my Bible every day (I’m 2 for 2 right now and crossing my fingers).
2008. The race is on!

2008 Resolution

I am resolved to never again serve chili (with crackers) for dinner, along with s’mores (with graham crackers) for dessert on the same day I take down a very dry, crumbly Christmas tree after a night I allow the girls to pop off confetti bombs all over the house, thereby ensuring I must sweep the entire downstairs not once, not twice, but three times in a day.

This I will not do again.

Think Anyone Will Notice If I Turn the Clock Forward by Four Hours?

So I had that great idea to do a family New Year’s Eve party tonight, where we let the girls stay up until midnight and welcome 2008 with party blowers and confetti on the front porch. I made a lot of snacky food and planned to cash in some Book-It coupons at Pizza Hut for dinner.

However, for the first time in my pizza ordering history, I had a Pizza Hut manager tell me he was out of pizza. Huh? It was 4:30 p.m., and apparently he didn’t want to accept all of our Book-It coupons on New Year’s Eve. As if he couldn’t go and pinch off a portion of a large pizza and make them…what are they teaching those pizza people these days anyway?

I passed on his great offer to sell me a larger pizza and we just tanked up on chips and cheese/rotel, summer sausage and crackers, Chex mix, and chocolate shakes. We’re all about the health here tonight.

And the girls? They’re acting like we tipped their heads back, inserted funnels, and poured in five-pound bags of sugar…per child. They are so excited to be staying up tonight. I’m not sure what I was thinking when I drove all four of them around to four different stores today (Aldi’s, Sam’s, Walmart, and Trader Joe’s). I had plans to hit Schnuck’s, too, but we were all toast after leaving Trader Joe’s.

The girls have since recuperated; I have not.

So here it is, 6:45 – only 5 hours and 15 minutes to go. Think anyone will notice if I change the time up by about four hours?