Short chapter this time. I have one quote and one great visual. First the quote:

“There’s nothing graceful about a life of license. If anything, a licensed life is the shortcut people take if they really want to speed up their personal destruction.”

Now the visual (and really, the quality of my picture isn’t what I’m talking about here, rather the diagram itself):

In case you can’t see it clearly, he’s woven together the concepts of instilling in our kids a secure love, a significant purpose, and a strong hope with the tenants of parenting our kids with four freedoms: to be different, to be vulnerable, to be candid, and to make mistakes.