I’m reading a book by Susan Hunt called Spiritual Mothering: The Titus 2 Model for Women Mentoring Women. I’m only halfway through right now, but have been so encouraged by her words.
As one who has embraced a more extreme version of all things Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 in the past, I have been more hesitant to align myself with women who get too excited about these passages. I’ve done a disservice to myself and others because of this.
The funny thing is that I found this book quite by accident. For my Introduction to Biblical Counseling class, I have to do a concept map of my model of counseling, or framework of counseling. I’ve read four of the five assigned books for the class so far and while they have been good to read, I haven’t figured out really how to apply the principles in them into the particular way I will possibly be put into “counseling” situations with women in the future. I am neither going into professional counseling, nor will I be pastoring (I know, you’re surprised by this). Both of those situations make up the majority of my classmates. So instead of reading the last assigned book, Strategic Pastoral Counseling (which I’m sure is a good book and one I will eventually get to), I did a little hunt-and-peck searching on google and came up with the current selection.
So far, it’s going on my very short list of favorite books for women, the other being Andi Ashworth’s book (which I promote all the time already). Amazon wasn’t carrying this new, but half.com has a plethora of them, so if you have some extra cash, I think this would be a good investment for you.
Here are a few of the little tidbits I’ve been encouraged by so far:
“My working definition for the spiritual mothering relationship is this: When a woman possessing faith and spiritual maturity enters into a nurturing relationship with a younger woman in order to encourage and equip her to live for God’s glory”
“Apparently Paul did not expect or want the women in the Cretan church to change their conduct without changing their thinking. He wanted them to think Christianly so that they would act Christianly. And sound doctrine is essential for right thinking.”
“Titus was not told to teach those women who were interested in signing up for the course.The command seems to be inclusive. The older women in the congregation were to be taught how to live in accordance with sound doctrine so that they could train the younger women – no exceptions.”
“To think of yourself as a woman of ’sound doctrine’ and ’spiritual maturity’ may seem presumptuous. Perhaps you feel an element of relief because your assessment is that you can honestly disqualify yourself on the basis of these qualifications. Don’t sell yourself short, and don’t rob the kingdom of what you have to offer! If you are a Christian woman who is seeking to grow in the faith and to live obediently, then you are qualified for spiritual motherhood. If you are not seeking to grow in the faith and live obediently, then you have a problem that needs to be confronted! Sound doctrine does not mean that you are a theological expert. Spiritual maturity does not mean that you have reached super sainthood. It does mean that you are growing in your knowledge of the Word and in your desire to apply the Word to every area of your life.”